Surrender your scorecard
Are you keeping score? How do you keep score and why? We like to, right? It oddly soothes us, knowing there is a measurement of either our performance or someone else's. The problem becomes judgement and expectation of the measurement. Who is pulling their load and who is not? Who is living up to their potential and who is not? Who is being selfish? Who is giving more? What am I owed and when do I get it? The judgment and expectation is fueled with what WE get out of the equation. The idea we should get anything from anyone is ludicrous at best. Entitlement to anything is an expectation off of center. Surrender your scorecard. Surrender is your expectation. It will put you in a position of service, not getting. Service puts you in a position of love and love allows you nothing to prove and nothing to lose. Meaning, a deep centered happiness and peace. I'm not asking you to stop having relationships or stop the desire to achieve. I’m asking you to stop predicating your relationships or success on scorecarding, expectations or judgment. Love without anything coming back at you and serve without expectation and you will live free from selfish desire that looks at keeping score.
Who do you scorecard?
Are you interested in spiritual direction? Here’s how to get started.
Step 1. Schedule a complimentary, no-obligation consult. Do that here.
Step 2. Watch your email for questions from me. Before we hop on the phone, I’d like to know a bit about you and what you’d like to get out of spiritual direction or coaching with me.
Step 3. Hit “reply” to that email and answer the questions.
Step 4. At the scheduled time of your consult, we’ll talk! We’ll use the opportunity to make sure we’re the perfect fit.
Step 5. Then we’ll get started! If you decide to work with me, I’ll tell you the exact steps for getting started. If you decide not to work with me or if we aren’t a perfect fit, I’m happy to share other resources to help you get what you need.
Have questions? You can call me… 619.964.0337
